One of my favorite places in the world is a café perched above the ocean in Big Sur. On my visit there this past weekend, the Pacific stretched endlessly towards the horizon, the water sparkled in the sunlight, and I enjoyed the cool breeze gently brushing my face. As I sat enjoying my coffee, a family of four arrived; the mom, dad, a young boy and his little sister. They settled at the table beside me with drinks, the children quietly occupied with a game while their parents